Finding time to connect in a big way is challenging. Especially when connection has been lacking for a while.
My husband and I didn’t have much connection for a long time. And it was rough. Trust and cooperation are scarce when we aren’t connected.
So now, my husband and I have a daily connection plan: after the kids are asleep, we spend five minutes together.
Just five minutes.
Some nights it turns into longer, but there is no pressure for it to.
On the late nights…the extra challenging nights…those nights where we just want to fall onto bed… five minutes together won’t hurt our “schedule”. But those five minutes will be wonderful for our connection, our relationship, our family, and our lives.
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